“Same-Sex Marriage in a Liberal Democracy: Between Rejection and Recognition” David Gilboa
Gilboa argues that a genuinely liberal society should allow for same-sex marital ceremonies but would not be discriminating against same-sex couples by denying them the benefits and protections of the marriage license. (I review Jeremy Garrett’s response to this paper, in the same issue, elsewhere on Philosopher’s Digest.)
Gilboa distinguishes between the right to marry a person of the same sex (by, e.g., having a wedding ceremony) and the right to obtain public recognition of such a marriage (by, e.g., obtaining a marriage license). He argues that liberalism should admit the former, but not for the reasons typically given. And he argues that liberalism can deny the latter without unjustly discriminating against same-sex couples.
The idea that liberalism should allow for same-sex wedding ceremonies is uncontroversial, claims Gilboa. But two reasons that he thinks are typically given for this idea are inadequate: (1) marriage is essentially about love, commitment, or intimacy (Gilboa counters that such essentialism about the institution of marriage is dubious, and, more importantly, avoidable, since we should focus instead on the marriage ceremony as a private service); (2) bans on same-sex marriage treat homosexuals and heterosexuals unequally before the law because only the latter can marry those they find sexually attractive (Gilboa counters that it is sometimes permissible for the law to exclude a group of people based on the uniqueness of the people’s preferences). Gilboa’s own reason for accepting the idea that liberalism should allow for same-sex wedding ceremonies is that liberalism guarantees the freedoms of speech, assembly, and religious expression.
The idea that it is not discriminatory to deny same-sex couples the legal rights and benefits of marriage is given two defenses by Gilboa. The first is based on a definition of “discrimination”; the second, on an understanding of “non-discriminatory reasons.”
Gilboa’s definitional argument runs as follows. Since “to discriminate against a person is to deny a legitimate claim of that person for equal access to public resources, including legal rights and benefits, because the person is a member of a protected group,” and since the denial of the legal rights and benefits of marriage to same-sex couples does not do this, the denial does not discriminate. He supports his definition of discrimination with examples of behavior that is non-discriminatory in the relevant sense: failure to give a girl a spot on the high school football team (it’s not because she’s a girl), failure to invite the one Jewish family in the neighborhood to a party at your house (it’s not a public resource), and failure to provide hearing impaired people hearing aids at the symphony (it’s not a legitimate claim). He supports his claim that denying same-sex couples the legal rights and benefits of marriage does not satisfy his definition of ‘discrimination’ using an analogy with public education. Equal access to public education is not denied when a person who prefers private education foregoes the public subsidy of the service, even though the state does not subsidize their private education. Likewise, equal access to marriage is not denied when a person who prefers same-sex marriage foregoes the public support of opposite-sex marriage, even though the state does not support their same-sex marriage. In either case, Gilboa argues, to suppose that equal access has been denied is to implicitly alter the nature or definition of the kind of resource that the public elects to provide.
Gilboa’s second argument for his claim that it is not discriminatory to deny same-sex couples the legal rights and benefits of marriage is that two common reasons for this denial are non-discriminatory reasons: (1) the belief that homosexual acts are morally wrong, and (2) a concern for the social consequences of the public recognition of same-sex marriage.
Regarding (1), Gilboa argues that even if homosexual acts are in fact morally permissible, a failure to recognize same-sex marriage that is genuinely due to moral disapprobation of such acts is not the same as targeting homosexuals for exclusion. He considers an objection: such moral disapprobation cannot be fruitfully distinguished from bias against homosexuals as a group. His reply is that in general, there is a perfectly valid distinction between moral disapprobation of certain things that members of a social group would like to do and bias against the group as a whole. Another objection: what if bans on interracial marriages were based on a belief that interracial sex was morally wrong? Gilboa’s reply here is that there are significant differences in the background conditions of homosexuals now and interracial couples during the time of anti-miscegenation laws in the United States: for example, while it is unbelievable for moral disapprobation of interracial sex back then to have been isolatable from comprehensive bias and hostility against African-Americans, it is believable for moral disapprobation of homosexual sex nowadays to be isolated from a comprehensive bias and hostility against homosexuals.
Regarding (2), Gilboa considers the argument that the consequences of giving public support to same-sex marriage might be negative, since such public support might dislodge the good effects of legally privileging heterosexual monogamy over other forms of union, thereby opening the door to (for example) polygamy. While he gives a favorable gloss to this argument, Gilboa insists that it can only legitimately be employed to deny public support to same-sex marriage, but cannot be used to ban the practice of homosexual wedding ceremonies or revive anti-sodomy laws.
In his conclusion, Gilboa argues that, even though it would not be discriminatory for the state to fail to support same-sex marriages, such failure to support same-sex marriages might lead to injustices of other kinds. In that case, he argues, it would be appropriate for states to create domestic partnership arrangements which would allow same-sex couples to obtain some, or even all, of the legal rights and benefits of civil marriages.